This guy sounds like he’s very controlling and manipulative–possibly emotionally abusive. If he ignores your feelings, uses lies or contradictions to manipulate you–that’s emotional abuse. If he tries to isolate you from your friends and family (possibly by undermining your trust in them), that’s a sign that abuse is occurring. The way you describe him making you feel indicates an abusive dynamic. Now I don’t have all the facts, but I advise you to exercise caution when making compromises. I left an abusive husband 11 months ago, and I had no idea how bad things were until I was out. Talk to someone you trust and don’t sugarcoat things. If you feel like you need to protect him by hiding his behavior, then that’s a sign that you probably need to leave.
He told a few days ago that I’m a mean person. We rarely do it anymore. We have been together for 7 years now. He refuses to take care of himself now and the more I nag the more he gets mad and longer he doesn’t shower. I’ve tried not nagging and it still didn’t work. II cant take it anymore, I love him so much but he seems so distant from me lately. He NEVER wants to do ANYTHING EVER. He goes to work then comes home and doesn’t leave the couch till I tell him to go to the bed. Today he told me that if I really knew just how much I piss him off and how he never says anything. That hurts! I talk about everything. I really try for open communication even if its tough but I don’t know what has gotten into him. We’ve been talking about getting a 2nd car and half of me is like, whoa, he wants it to get away from me. The other half is like yeah, that’ll be nice I guess. I’m not sure if I am just paranoid or if he doesn’t want me or if its just depression. Maybe all 3.
We talked and i said what is happening he said nothing and he tells me that he loves me, and yesterday is our 1st month and i i greeted him and i say i love you he replied “im going to take a bath XD” and we talked again and i told him what’s wrong he said there’s nothing wrong .. he doesn’t take our conversation serious anymore… what does that mean?
I think it means he is angry at you, probably because you haven’t resolved your conflict in that last conversation.
How can i know for sure this programme will work? Its really expensive…..so..can you reassure me it will work? Before i spend my money on it?
Clara, Obviously I can’t guarantee it will work. It depends on too many things. However, the ebook is refundable for 60 days. You can try it (but really try…) and if it doesn’t work you can get all your money back no questions asked. I hope this helps.
my boyfriend and i are staying together at his place but don’t make love anymore, the last time we did was a month ago. his family knows me, and he used to talk about marriage but now says he doesn’t have money . we have broken up several times and all the time he will have a girlfriend, then claims it never meant anything to him and I’m the “one”. i suspect that during our last break he had unprotected sex because the blanket that was on the bed had some stains that clearly looks like he was withdrawing, and of course he denies this. i forgave him, asked him to get it cleaned(that was in March) but up to now, he has not done anything about it, though i ask him about it. yesterday we were to sleep at my parents’ house but he never pitched, came in the morning, no explanation or whatsoever. what does this mean?